[derez]

I had the same problem and decided to show the advance of the song by a progress bar, and allow the user to select a new point in the song by moving the track bar - but the track bar is not moving, only by the user:

Sub Timer1_Tick
...
progressBar1.Value = fmod.Position / fmod.Length1 * 100
...
end sub

Sub Bar1_ValueChanged
fmod.Position = bar1.Value * fmod.Length1 /100
End Sub

not ellegant but efficient...