Hello Agraham,
I've got the solution. In German we say: I must have had a board in front of the head.(Ich muß ein Brett vor dem Kopf gehabt haben.) because it is pretty easy.

AktQer = FEx1Men3.Text
FEx1Men3.ControlRef = FEx1Men.GetMenuItem(2)
MenC = FEx1Men1.MenuCount
For i = 7 To MenC-1 'MenC = MenC = FEx1Men1.MenuCount = 16
FEx1MenT.ControlRef = FEx1Men3.GetMenuItem(i)
If FEx1MenT.Text = AktQer Then
FEx1MenT.Checked = True
Else
FEx1MenT.Checked = False
End If
Next
So it computes. Lot of thanks to you.
Best regards
berndgoedecke